Monday, May 16, 2011

文 or 商?

心情很乱..
这个消息也并不是很突然..
只是..
真的要我面对这个问题..
好难..
不懂要怎么选择..
他现在要我们在那么短时间内,去决定一个足以影响我们一生的决定,适合吗?
我们选文商科的目的本来就是因为对自
己的未来不确定,
而决定在这两年,甚至是三年内
去寻找、去发掘自
己要做的究竟是什么..
现在,
他却突然间要我们在短时间
内做出决定..
没错,
我不否认对一些已经确定自己目
标的人,
这是一件好事..
但是,
对于
那些还没找到目标的,
你要他们怎么办?
你要我们怎么办?

随便选一科,
然后在将来才来后悔自己所做出的选择吗?

没错,我不排除我有私心..
我不想要和我的班分开..
真的不想..
虽然只相处了半年,
但是原谅我说这句话..
This is the best class i've ever had.

但是现在我们更应该面对的是现实的问题..
他现在要我们做出的选择是关乎我们的未来..

不是每一个人都已经知道自己以后的路该怎么走..
他现在
要我们在那么短时间内作出决定..
如果将来我们后悔了,
怪谁?
怪他逼我们在短时间内做选择?
还是怪自己一时冲动
做错选择?
这是需要慎重考虑的..
可是时间短促..
如何
好好思考?
更何况我们现在又要面对期末考..
他在这个时
候宣布这种事情,
不是很不适合吗?

真是有够烦的..
难道他们觉得这是一个很容易做的决定吗?=(
这个决定,我真的不敢乱下..
毕竟..
这真的很重要..
它是比我以后要嫁谁还要来得重要的选择=="
绝对不可以轻易的下判断..
想写一封信给他..
表达一下我的看法..
我相信他会找我谈的..
到时候,或许我可以更容易找到自己的方向?

而你,
难道你就不可以让我们拥有去追求梦想的权利吗?
为什么你总要把一切事情看得那么现实?
我知道在未来的世界里,钱是真的很重要..
但是,说实话..
条条大路通罗马..
不是只有读商科才可以赚大钱的..
请你停止你那冥顽不灵的想法行吗?
拜托你停止所有的恶言..
每个人都有自己的想法..
即使一个人再没有自己的想法,他也会有思考自己未来的时候..
如果一个人真的丧失了最基本的主见和他追求梦想的热诚,也是因为有你这种人造成的..

2 comments:

  1. Hey, don't feel too sad about it. This is life and everyone experienced the same thing before. This is not the end of the world. ☺

    About which classes you should go for, I suggest you to choose the one you like the most.
    First, try to ask yourself: What are the jobs I like the most? What are my interests? List out at least 3-5 jobs you like. Forget about the job opportunities and salary. Choose it through what you would like to do in the future.
    After that, ask yourself again: Am I capable of doing this in the future? What kind of challenges I will face in the future? What preparation should I do? This is the time to use you critical thinking skills.
    If you really have a difficult time, try to ask helps from your parents, teachers and also experience seniors. I'm not graduated from commerce class so I'm not so sure about the syllabus. I'm sure there are experienced people out there. Go ahead and ask them. If you have the time, do some research, it may be boring but it helps.

    Since your teacher ask you to make the decision all the sudden. Don’t worry; it doesn’t really affect your life, seriously. When you go to college, your freshman year always start with basic courses. So if you work slightly harder, you can catch up with out students!

    There is one thing I would like to mention. NEVER CHOOSE the courses/majors because YOUR BEST FRIENDS do. This is a NEVER. Relationship makes you even difficult at the end. You will feel miserable after all. I experienced this, and I regret, so start a new one again. Every relationship will come to its end point someday. Also, leaving well-known friends doesn't mean FOREVER GOODBYE. It's for you to start a new environment and meet new friends! Some day during the holiday, you still can invite your old friends to hang out together.

    This is how my life goes:
    I have no idea what I wanted to do. I had the time of my life in my senior year. I started to think crazily like go to the same college with my best friends and do the same major (<< I can’t believe that was me.) And yea… I did. Who knows our friendship came to an end and knowing bff is not really FOREVER and reality… I got emotional break down and devastated for 6 months, losing all the friends, around me and screwed my exam. My parents give me chances to try again. And I woke up and became matured. I started from the basics all over again and meet new friends. I never feel obsessed with strong friendship bond again. I got my admission to one of the best college in the region. I’m studying what I want to do and at the same time, doing what my parents want. (I major in Aerospace Engineering while studying minor in Finance… see, I’m from science class but I still get the chance to do business! It doesn’t affect you actually.) Furthermore, I give myself some goals, which are to transfer one of the top university, try to get a scholarship, get my bachelor degree, get my master and PhD., meet my future wife, reward my parents as an appreciation for taking care of me for the past few decades, and get the job I wanted to do!

    I think my life is GREAT and I’m happy that I was born this way! LOL
    Anyway, life is about what and how you think. Even something bad can turns great! Be yourself and be confidence. I hope this helps you to feel better. ☺

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  2. i think i knw who you say at last.. haiz..

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